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anita@practicalpolyamory.com has shared: The #1 Reason Why Men and Women Over 50 Cheat (It’s Not What You Think!)

Whew! The over 50 crowd’s comments are brutal. It is very apparent from the comments that the idea that monogamy isn’t natural scares people very badly indeed. It’s a good article, though, and features a 28 minutes TED talk about why we cheat by ahropologist Helen Fisher Ph.D.- she’s worth it.

So what do you think of this article?  It also references Esther Perel’s work – Matingin Captivity – in which she is quoted as saying that people in a long term relationship should deal with the urge to cheat by being creative in the bedroom, in [...]

Polyamory – It’s Not Just for Baby Boomers Anymore

In his most recent entry at Polyamory in the News, Alan quotes a college student: ”Every time I turn around, I feel like more of my peers are entering open relationships.” A 30-something family member of mine said the very same to me just a few days ago.  Then Alan gives us a rundown of the latest poly news from college campuses.  He also includes the following quote and comment: “This is my poly dream: that every college student in America will know the word polyamory and what it means within five years.” So declared Diana Adams at a Loving More conference 4¼ years ago. Since then, [...]

Still Here – Hiatus Over!

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So where have I been since October?  If you’ve been wondering about that, I do appreciate your patience. I know when it comes to blogging, consistency is important, and I will do my best to return to that. It’s just that there have been so many wonderful things going on in my life. I got married! (Nonmonogamously, of course.) We got engaged in early October and set the date for December 17, 2011, so as you can imagine, there was SO much to do! Here are my dear husband and partner of six years, Tim, and me on our [...]

Calling All Therapists! CARAS Alternative Sexualities Conference August 3, 2011

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I’m excited!  The Community-Academic Consortium for Research on Alternative Sexualities (“CARAS”) is holding it’s “4th Annual Alternative Sexualities Conference: Cultural Competencies, Clinical Issues, Research” here in DC on Wednesday, August 3, 2011, 9AM to 6PM.  My partner and I will be presenting as a case our experiences and challenges with sexual addiction/compulsion in a polyamorous relationship context, and psychiatrist Dr. Gary Wynn will provide a clinical perspective, and facilitate the conversation.  Of course, the conference is about a lot more than that.

In my polyamory advocacy and educational work, I frequently encounter people who have had a bad experience when seeking therapy from a [...]

Showtime’s Polyamory: Married and Dating

I am a fan of quite a few adult-themed Showtime series like Californication, Dexter, Weeds, Shameless, House of Lies, etc.  When about ten days before its premiere Showtime, which had been entirely silent until that point, finally ran the following teaser about its polyamory documentary reality series, Polyamory: Married and Dating, I just happened to be watching. 

I jumped up and cried “Wow, it’s Showtime!” I immediately ran to my computer and checked the Showtime website for more info, and there was nothing there.  But it didn’t take long for that to change.  I was more excited about it than [...]

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