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This Week on Savage Love: Dan Gives Poly People the Last Word on Poly as Orientation

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How lovely to see that Dan Savage was as good as his word when he remarked a week or so ago in the Slog Blog that he would be giving polyamorists a chance to have their say regarding a statement he made to Polyamorous PolyMath (“PP”) (scroll down to the second letter), saying that polyamory is something you do and not who you are.  The question of whether polyamorous counts as a sexual orientation added to the ensuing confusion mele’, but orientation indeed it is, though a relationship orientation.  It really doesn’t fit as a sexual orientation, unless you count liking to have sex [...]

Sierra Black on HuffPo With Advice on Taking More Than One Honey Home for a Visit

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An excellent blog post has just been written by Sierra Black, a polyamory writer and activist in the midwest, with great advice on how to handle taking more than one partner home for a holiday celebration. 

Sierra has landed herself a blog on Huffington Post’s Women’s pages, and this subject is not being shyed away from.  .

So have a look, you never know when these skills will be required by your own poly life.

September 23 is Sexual Freedom Day!

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Tomorrow is Sexual Freedom Day, established as such by the Woodhull Sexual Freedom Alliance, September 23 being its namesake Victoria Woodhull’s birthday. I thought I’d take a minute and let you know that I will be attending and participating in tomorrow’s activities as a recognized member of the polyamory leadership community. I did this last year as well. Woodhull is based here in DC and does excellent work on behalf of all of us. In case you aren’t familiar with them, their mission is, in part: “… to affirm sexual freedom as a fundamental human right, working towards a world [...]

anita@practicalpolyamory.com has shared: The #1 Reason Why Men and Women Over 50 Cheat (It’s Not What You Think!)

Whew! The over 50 crowd’s comments are brutal. It is very apparent from the comments that the idea that monogamy isn’t natural scares people very badly indeed. It’s a good article, though, and features a 28 minutes TED talk about why we cheat by ahropologist Helen Fisher Ph.D.- she’s worth it.

So what do you think of this article?  It also references Esther Perel’s work – Matingin Captivity – in which she is quoted as saying that people in a long term relationship should deal with the urge to cheat by being creative in the bedroom, in [...]

Did Human Evolution Favor Monogamy or Polygamy?

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This content was sent by Anita Wagner Illig using Format Dynamics’ eco-friendly CleanPrint/Save. Enjoy! Message: A very good article that pretty well declares that we humans are monogmmish, a term sex columnist Dan Savage coined to describe his relationship with his husband. This writer acknowledges the research and informed opinions of Christopher Ryan Ph.D. and Cacilda Jetha, Ph.D. in their book, Sex at Dawn, which he acknowledges have certainly received more than their share of controversy. People really do get upset when we talk honestly on this subject. Which is why I love seeing this kind of article because [...]

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