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This Week on Savage Love: Dan Gives Poly People the Last Word on Poly as Orientation

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How lovely to see that Dan Savage was as good as his word when he remarked a week or so ago in the Slog Blog that he would be giving polyamorists a chance to have their say regarding a statement he made to Polyamorous PolyMath (“PP”) (scroll down to the second letter), saying that polyamory is something you do and not who you are.  The question of whether polyamorous counts as a sexual orientation added to the ensuing confusion mele’, but orientation indeed it is, though a relationship orientation.  It really doesn’t fit as a sexual orientation, unless you count liking to have sex [...]

Maria’s Pride and Arnold’s Dog House

I posted this political cartoon to Facebook today, remarking “Would that the public drew a more realistic conclusion from this than this “trend” being due merely to powerful, wealthy men being immoral. (Not that they aren’t, but there’s more to the story, say Sex at Dawn authors Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jetha.)

A poly friend of mine remarked, “I don’t see why they have to necessarily split over this…. Just acknowledge it and be open.”

Of course that’s what he and I would say and for good reason. But betrayal is still betrayal, especially when a long-time commitment [...]

anita@practicalpolyamory.com has shared: The #1 Reason Why Men and Women Over 50 Cheat (It’s Not What You Think!)

Whew! The over 50 crowd’s comments are brutal. It is very apparent from the comments that the idea that monogamy isn’t natural scares people very badly indeed. It’s a good article, though, and features a 28 minutes TED talk about why we cheat by ahropologist Helen Fisher Ph.D.- she’s worth it.

So what do you think of this article?  It also references Esther Perel’s work – Matingin Captivity – in which she is quoted as saying that people in a long term relationship should deal with the urge to cheat by being creative in the bedroom, in [...]

ABA Journal: Are Laws Barring Polygamy Destined to Fall? Law Prof Defends Marriage of Two

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And so it begins.  Legal same sex marriage is at its tipping point, and that means it won’t be long before multi-partner marriage will be debated more seriously in the US than ever before.  Heres the link to an American Bar Association Journal article pointed out to me by Matthew C. Berntsen, Esq.

Are Laws Barring Polygamy Destined to Fall? Law Prof Defends Marriage of Two

John Witte Jr., is director of the Center for the Study of Law and Religion at Emory University, and author of a forthcoming title, “Why Two in One Flesh: The Western Case for Monogamy over [...]

Polyamory Leadership Network

Over the last three years, the Polyamory Leadership Network has evolved into a very active entity, however loosely organized.  It includes people from around the world who make some kind of contribution toward raising awareness of polyamory and supporting those who live poly lives.  Basically its members make whatever contribution they wish to make without red tape approval processes.  There is no board of directors, because we poly people are an independent, ornery bunch, don’tchaknow, none of us being especially inclined to answer to authority. 

But seriously, check out the PLN website, and if you are someone who [...]

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