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How to deal with annoying Fetlifers

Trigger warning: racist & sexist slurs

A chatlog? Haven’t done one of these in a while. Anyway, here is a chatlog between me and one of my (white, straight, cisgendered, male, top) friends.

Wilhelmina: i wish random fetlifers i don’t know would stop trying to come on to me via messages

Wilhelmina: this one older guy messaged me once asking if i was “oriental” and wondering if i was a switch “because i was a woman” (???)

Friend: hahaha, oh man- and then I think of all the least appropriate responses ever

Friend: but he probably wouldn’t [...]

4 Myths About Bondage

Bondage is gaining popularity, but there are many misconceptions about it. Check out these four untruths you didn’t know about bondage.

Bondage is pleasure-inflicting, fun and, most of all, safe, as long as you’re both aware of your roles and never cross the line.

The bound person finds it exciting because it provides him/her the opportunity to be ‘lazy’ but get all the attention at the same time; the only thing he or she has to do is relax and enjoy what his or her partner has in stall for the evening.

There is also the pleasure of suspense, of [...]

Creepy Doms and the Unhealthy Relationship ’50 Shades’ Fosters

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The number of articles written about the insipid and unfortunate trilogy, 50 Shades, is staggering. But at least most of them are better written than the actual books. Just look at the 1/2 star reviews on Amazon to see what I mean if you’ve managed to miss out on that aspect. This article I stumbled across today points out that while the actual sex is indeed a ridiculous fairy tale, the relationship is a tale of caution.

Much of the media attention thus far has focused on the BDSM relationship between the two main characters. What’s missing, though — [...]

Snowballs

Have you ever found yourself trucking along in life, and then suddenly feeling very overwhelmed with the sheer amount of things you are doing?

One of the reasons I feel so right in a submissive role is that I have a tendency to overwhelm myself in everyday life. I take on lots of projects and don’t make time for those lazy moments. I have a hard time watching an entire hour-long TV show or relaxing with some wine and reading a book or soaking in the bubble bath alone with my thoughts.

Don’t get me wrong, Iwantto do those [...]

Resources for Safe BDSM intro?

I believe this is on topic, because it’s sex related, and I am a vagina-bodied person. I scoured the links and couldn’t find anything on this. :[ I’ve recently started seeing a new guy, and he mentioned that he’s interested in bondage. He’s not very experienced on the whole, and I am not experienced with bondage at all, but I am educated enough about sex to know that one shouldn’t tie someone up using ties or scarves or cheap handcuffs that most beginners normally use–the fabric makes it easy for the knots to pull really tight and be difficult to [...]

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