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Resources for Safe BDSM intro?

I believe this is on topic, because it’s sex related, and I am a vagina-bodied person. I scoured the links and couldn’t find anything on this. :[ I’ve recently started seeing a new guy, and he mentioned that he’s interested in bondage. He’s not very experienced on the whole, and I am not experienced with bondage at all, but I am educated enough about sex to know that one shouldn’t tie someone up using ties or scarves or cheap handcuffs that most beginners normally use–the fabric makes it easy for the knots to pull really tight and be difficult [...]

Amy Shiner on Huffington Post: A "Deli" Approach to Polyamory

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Huffington Post Gay Voices Blogger Amy Shiner tells a story there about being kinky and poly that I think will resonate for many living their lives similarly.  As I offered in comments, I’ve been working with kinky poly people as an educator for a while now, and I’ve observed what she describes fairly often. Today the practice of polyamory in kink circles seems to be all over the place, some of which does not much resemble polyamory to me, but far be it from me to tell anyone how they ought to identify.     What I do know is that [...]

e[lust] #41

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The 2 weeks of my sex life I lost to Zoloft – “My G-spot felt non-existent. My clit felt numb. The masturbation didn’t hold [...]

Creepy Doms and the Unhealthy Relationship ’50 Shades’ Fosters

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The number of articles written about the insipid and unfortunate trilogy, 50 Shades, is staggering. But at least most of them are better written than the actual books. Just look at the 1/2 star reviews on Amazon to see what I mean if you’ve managed to miss out on that aspect. This article I stumbled across today points out that while the actual sex is indeed a ridiculous fairy tale, the relationship is a tale of caution.

Much of the media attention thus far has focused on the BDSM relationship between the two main characters. What’s missing, though — [...]

Snowballs

Have you ever found yourself trucking along in life, and then suddenly feeling very overwhelmed with the sheer amount of things you are doing?

One of the reasons I feel so right in a submissive role is that I have a tendency to overwhelm myself in everyday life. I take on lots of projects and don’t make time for those lazy moments. I have a hard time watching an entire hour-long TV show or relaxing with some wine and reading a book or soaking in the bubble bath alone with my thoughts.

Don’t get me wrong, Iwantto do those [...]

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